Money as your husband: How to make money yours

Why do we want a relationship with money?

A relationship with money will allow us to have more gratitude, be in more appreciation and become more abundant.

In this talk, I chat about how to create that relationship with money so you can have that ideal relationship with it.

I go over 3 tips on building that ideal relationship with money.

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Money, Men and Debunking the femininity myths

Our relationship with money and men are interwined. I know it may sound weird, but it is true.

I am all about healing our relationship with money, men and being feminine. I truly feel that it will change the world for the better as focus on ourselves.

I healed my relationship with money. It was the best feeling in the world when I paid the last of the $50,000 debt in under 3 years! Yes, it is completely possible.

Then I went back into scarcity and went into debt again.

Then I healed my relationship more than ever before and now, am happily debt free for over 2 years.

As I healed my relationship with money, I noticed my relationship with men started improving. I felt more respected. I felt I valued myself more. I felt that I owned my knowledge and what I had to offer. All my relationships were on my terms now and were what I wanted.

I focused today’s video on debunking the myth of femininity and what it really means to be feminine. This all relates to our relationship with money and men as well. Enjoy the video!

 

Excited to heal your money story and your relationship with men:

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What is stopping you from being happier and healthier?

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As I sat on a hotel balcony in Honolulu looking at this beautiful view, I contemplated my own life and where I could be happier and healthier. I went through an exercise of being hard on myself first as some of us have a tendency to do. I quickly recognized I was doing this and stepped into the exercise of seeing myself in a year from now and what is it that I want to create for myself.

I realized I had in the past let money determine for quite a while what I can and can not create for myself. I had given money the power to determine if I was going to be happy or be healthy. I had let money determine my relationship with myself and others. I had let money stop me from making decisions in my life that I knew would be the best for me.

I ask you to share what is stopping you from being happier and healthier?

It was once I healed my relationship with money that I truly felt in control of my own life . I was making decisions from a place of what is best for me instead of what I can afford? I chose to make decisions from a place of how can I be healthier and happier. I also chose to just be happy and healthy instead of waiting for everything to be the way I thought it should be. This new place of having a healed relationship with money is so much more fun and easier than constantly worrying.

How did I heal my relationship with money?

a) I started to build a relationship with it by spending time looking at my bank accounts and statements. I also watched my budget more closely.

b) I also changed my mindset of how I felt about it. I started to look at money from a place as if it was my best friend. I started to treat money as I would a best friend.

What would your life look like if you healed your relationship with money? How different would your life be? What would you do that you are not doing now?

If you are ready to shift your relationship with money, check out the Wealthylicious http://wealthyliciousvancouver.eventbrite.com/ event on June 20th and the 4-week Attract More Money and Live Healthier group coaching courses http://wp.me/P1HP20-7M  coming up.

 

 

Exciting Events coming up

June 19th – “Truths and Myths of Successful Startup Businesses” – www.byobfsuccessstartup.eventbrite.ca

Come learn from experts and entrepreneurs on tips on how to have a successful startup.

June 20th – “Wealthylicious Vancouver” – http://wealthyliciousvancouver.eventbrite.com/

Heal Your Money Stories, Activate Your Millionaire Mindset and Create Multiple Streams of Income.

July 8th – “Attract More Money and Live Healthier” – http://wp.me/P1HP20-7M

A 4 tele-call series on Attracting more Money and living healthier focusing on money mindset, and a 30-day action plan to achieve your goals. (A tele-call series is a group coaching program, where you will be provided a conference call number to dial into during call times and will be sent a recording incase you miss the live class. Email support is provided in between calls to answer all questions you may have)

Spending time with others helps with our abundance?

In the next few weeks, there are many exciting things happening in my life including travel and some really inspiring events (I will include links to the inspiring events on the bottom of this post). My travel all transpired organically and very last minute, which reminded me of how when we live in the flow we are easily able to manifest what we want.

I am gearing up to meet Amma in Seattle this weekend (check out my post last year on the purest love I experienced with her-http://bit.ly/12NjYza), then I am off to Hawaii and Fiji! I am living my dream of working off my laptop on an exotic beach;) All of this last minute travel has been teaching me quite a bit about myself especially around my relationship with money and people. I noticed that as I had started to spend quality time with people who I felt uplifted and inspired around, money and opportunities started to flow my way.

Queen of EarthThe Queen of Earth card below from the Angel Tarot Cards shows us how we can create magic all around us if we stay connected to our surroundings, spend quality time with individuals who we leave feeling refreshed and renewed and she especially shows us that bringing in compassion into situations allows us to have positive outcomes to challenges.

Have you realized that when you are happy and feeling healthy, that everything seems to be better? When we are in the flow of life, relationships are better, there is more opportunities coming your way and all your manifestations are coming true. Wouldn’t it be great to feel this way all the time?

It is possible that you can. It is a choice you make to “BE” happy, “BE” content and “BE” present around the people you enjoy spending time with. If you notice diverging from any of these states, ask yourself “am I avoiding intimacy,” or “how do I feel around these individuals?” I will remind you that no one can make you feel any which way, if someone makes us tired or a little negative than we are allowing someone else to determine how we feel. If you notice that you are constantly feeling a little more down around a certain person, ask yourself “what is it that they remind me of that gets me feeling anything less than positive?”

I know that this post is loaded with relationship related questions that we will unpack over the next couple of weeks as we gear up for the 4 part – call series on Attracting more Money and Live Healthier.

I will leave you off with an exercise to visit your current list of family and friends and see who you feel the most refreshed around, rejuvenated and inspired by. I would suggest spending more time around those individuals and watch how much more grateful you are towards life then!

 

Exciting Events coming up

June 19th – “Truths and Myths of Successful Startup Businesses” – www.byobfsuccessstartup.eventbrite.ca

Come learn from experts and entrepreneurs on tips on how to have a successful startup.

 

June 20th – “Wealthylicious Vancouver” – http://wealthyliciousvancouver.eventbrite.com/

Heal Your Money Stories, Activate Your Millionaire Mindset and Create Multiple Streams of Income.

 

July 8th – “Attract More Money and Live Healthier” – http://wp.me/P1HP20-7M

A 4 tele-call series on Attracting more Money and living healthier focusing on money mindset, and a 30-day action plan to achieve your goals. (A tele-call series is a group coaching program, where you will be provided a conference call number to dial into during call times and will be sent a recording incase you miss the live class. Email support is provided in between calls to answer all questions you may have)

Trusting that it will all work out

How many times have you realized that you are fearing that you don’t have enough? The bank account seems a little low, the wallet is only heavy with credit cards and you know there are upcoming bills?

Sometimes, it is a matter of going into our heart and asking “How can be taken care of?” or “How can I bring in the funds that I need?” It is important to be clear with how much you need and when you need it by.

It amazes me as I walk in the Downtown Eastside that many atimes these individuals live on pure faith that they will be taken care of. Those of us who seem to have it all, live in more fear than those who don’t have as much as we do in material goods.

How can you bring in more faith into your life? Well it starts with a simple tool of budgeting first to know how much you need first, then drawing up action items of how to put into motion in order to bring it in.

The simple tools I enjoy using for personal use include Royal Bank My Finances Tool and Mint.com. Both have budgeting included as well as categorize expenses so that you are aware of where you are spending your money.

For business, I am a fan of Quickbooks. I find it easy to use and it gets the job done.

From having these tools or a bookkeeper, it takes the guessing game away so that you are more in control of your expenses.

Asking yourself the questions of “how can I increase my income,” will allow you to be more creative with your possibilities.

Money comes in different forms. If you believe you are supported and have faith you will be taken care of, I am sure you will.